There are no public libraries here in PH like there are in the US. OK, that’s a misleading statement; I mean, we do have public libraries; we’re still not that deprived of such facilities. *coughs* that said, it’s more academic than leisure. So if we want a book, we provide it—or some other people afford it for us. *bless the good hearts of these people* And even though I’m not reading books lately, my stance on taking good care of books remains the same. The books on the shelves at home are still in pristine condition. I dusted them once in a while (because the air pollution here is just too darn scary! ), although I have yet to do the rearranging, which feels like eons ago. But books are fine and dandy!

Now, am I the only person who is actually scared of showcasing her book collection to acquaintances? I am hoping not! See, I can stop fidgeting when they start eyeing the books. Then they took one, read the summary, and showed interest on their faces. And then the most nail-biting words will leave their mouths: “Can you lend it to me?” *runs*

Ok, I’m selfish, I know! But I’m not too keen on lending books. I’m very meticulous when it comes to my books. Although, thankfully, no one has massacred any of my books so far (and let’s keep the record that way). The worst thing that has ever happened is that they didn’t return it on time (it took one year for it to return). But I’m somewhat of a pushover. When a question requires an immediate response, I panic and give in. So when a person who’s close to me then asks me to borrow my books, I will still stagger for an answer.

However, I haven’t lent a book to a bookworm who treasures books. Because I did borrow a book before (in rare cases, though). I always return it on time and make certain that no harm has occurred to the book while it was in my care.It is because I know how important books are to us, bibliophiles. So I want to return the gesture. Occasional readers seem to be different, though (I think… clear disclaimer there). Like my sisters lent their books to friends: one has never returned (like, 5 years and counting… I’m pretty sure it’s in a junk shop already… or recycled into something else *sighs*). and the other smelled like a rotten sandwich (why the mayonnaise stain on the spine and some pages??!! ) *fist in the air* Still, I’m pretty lucky that mine was returned, though I’ve waited for some time. The bottom line is that it came back.

So in case you’re not a hardcore bibliophile and you like to borrow, I hope that you’ll make sure to take care of it. To me, they’re a priceless collection. It’s not about the money, but the memories I had while reading the book are more valuable than a monetary investment. So if the person lends it to you in great condition, kindly return it the same way. Think of it as a simple form of gratitude to this generous person. Yes?

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So how about you—do you have an irrational fear of lending books like me? Have you had a bad experience with it? Share your thoughts with me!